Sorry for not postin in a while - this last wekk has been like an emotional rollercoaster ride that i can't seem to get off!
Guys seem to be really macho when flirting, playing sport and just manly stuff but im starting to wonder whether they are actually cowards when it comes to love!
Most guys I've come across seem to like to stick to whats familiar and whats safe. So far, the excuses I've had for not stepping out of the comfort zone are: 'Don't want a relationship at the moment', 'I enjoy flirting and don't want to stick to one person for ages', 'I don't want to ruin our friendship', 'I'm not entirely sure the I'm over my ex', 'You're blonde' (that one really hurt!), 'I don't do distance relationships'... shall I go on!!!?
Whats happened to the sense of adventure and going forward into the future rather than sitting in the past! Perhaps guys feel the same about us girls! I duno - nobodys ever said!
Maybe guys just make excuses with me - after all - who would want to go out with an officers kid!?
About Me
- Officers Kid
- Im studying for a degree in Youth Work and Youth Ministry with Oasis UK in London and am loving it! Don't ask me where I'm from cos the list will include, northern Ireland (Enniskillen and Lisburn), Oldham UK, South Africa (Pietermaritzburg and Germiston), Birmingham UK, North Walsham UK, Sudbury UK and Hemel Hempstead UK!
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Hmm, i'm not sure i really need to say my thoughts on this, but remember that guys and girls aren't that different.
Neither want to be hurt, neither want to hurt the other person, but both need friends (or more) to live their lives to the full.
Give guys a break, because not all of us are like that...
please note! I said 'most guys that Ive come across' not 'all guys'!!!!
fair enough, but those comments that your guys made are also made by girls...
Yeah well some guys are like that but they aren't all like that you know!
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